This is a guide to basic kissing, i.e.
you learn the basics and get the basics
right, then experiment and try different
styles and more advanced techniques.
1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath,
nicely groomed and clean and fresh,
before meeting the other person. There's
nothing worse than kissing the rear end
of a garbage truck
2. Get into a comfortable position - you
can't kiss if your back feels like it's
gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by
side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover, firmly but gently -
don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to
hold the shoulders, the neck or gently
on the side of the face, one side or
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump
noses. Suggestion would be the guys angle
his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips
kissing, and close your eyes. Closing
your eyes increases the sensations you
feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get
comfortable with simple closed lips,
lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere
7. If fine till here, tentatively,
slowly and lightly draw your tongue
across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other
person lightly parts her tongue; slowly
explore the other person's tongue in a
light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive
surface, which is why tongue to tongue
is the essence of French kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking
the other person's tongue, you can try
sucking on it, wrestling with it (see
if you can hold it to the floor of her
mouth) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the
mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth.
Lightly lick, or tickle the area with
12. Don't bite. Whatever you do, don't
13. Don't swing your tongue round and
round like a windmill. Explore lightly,
don't drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe
through your nose. I say again, breathe
through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use
your hands too, lightly rubbing the
other person. Suggestions, along the
waist, along the back, the arms,
especially the inside of the arm, the
neck, maybe running your fingers through
her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
16. Continue kissing.